There's a such thing as human nature. Usually when we use that phrase, we mean something negative. But there's also a such thing as male nature and female
nature. And there are pros and cons to male tendencies and female tendencies. But I want to make a video focusing on some aspects of female nature that it
Now, the biblical phrase help me meet has been discussed by many people and I'm not going to delve into that here just because it's such a deep idea and
it deserves its own time and focus. But one aspect of what we are meant to do for each other, a husband and a wife are supposed to help the other become the
counterpoints, the counterparts in males. Males tend to be satisfied with very little. We're well known for this. Exhibit A is the bachelor pad. You've
So when a guy every every guy in every situation seems to have a natural sense of what will be enough for him and once he reaches enough he wants to stop. This
comes all the way from Eden. Remember when Adam was expelled from Eden, God commanded that he would earn his bread by the sweat of his brow. That was his
help meat. They're supposed to sharpen each other like like iron sharpens iron. And one way that this happens is we're supposed to see the good in the other
normal day, your normal weekday." Maybe he wakes up at a decent time, goes to the gym for a while, takes a shower, eats some food, works for eight hours,
You are never done until you die. You're here and you're strapped to a burden that's your duty to carry. Now, I'm not here to whip you and say, "Hey, you owe
good. You feel that way right now. Your future self will not feel that way. You know why? Life only ever gets harder. Period. It is baked into the way the
getting harder is that the women in your life will never let you rest. They will never be satisfied with who you are today. And even if they they are happy
with who you are today, the future version of them will not be. So many men get into this trap and they they get married, they have some kids, whatever,
and she starts harping on you because you haven't gotten a significant raise in 10 years. doesn't matter that you've been able to pay off your house and go
on vacations and everything else. She's going to say that she's not going to say she won't understand it. She won't be aware enough to understand it. But
saying, "Where else is this self-worth coming from? My husband needs to grow to take the place of where I am decaying. And you see couples where the guy keeps
That's absolutely not not true. Meaning equals meaning and that's it. Okay? But you have to keep being the best person you can be. Maybe the best isn't a
Luke 12, let your loins be girded about and your lights burning. And this know that if the good man of the house had known what hour the thief would come, he
would have watched and not have suffered his house to be broken through. If you knew the challenges that were headed your way in life, you'd work a lot
do every day, but there's a framework that is perfectly applicable to to any particular person. You can fill in all the details, but it's a scaffold, and I
think you'll find that extremely helpful to read and implement. Another great thing about the book is you can scale it up or down as much as you'd like. There
imagine what things will be like in 20 years or 50 years. It's easier to think about what things will be like in 10, but it's still very hard. It's a lot
Now, your idea of the future might differ from mine and that's fine. One of us is more correct than the other. Time will tell and we might that might boil
down to the to individual details. You might be more correct about one thing than I am and vice versa. That's fine. But whatever the future holds, you have
and anticipate future risks. So, I wish you well in this and even if you attempt it, you're going to be way better off than almost everyone who doesn't.