Recognize and resist the use of manipulative language. Rephrase ideas that are stated in an intentionally provocative way. Insist the other person say what is really meant instead of making insinuations, oversimplifications, or using slogans. Refuse to acknowledge language that shifts the blame for poor decisions (for example, “died by suicide” instead of “killed himself ”). Point out and refuse to use words created or redefined in the modern era.